Judging ourself - best way to judge others

Its increasingly becoming almost impossible for you to hear anyone critize him/herself.We find it very easy to analyse & criticize other people,that we never take the time to see our own faults.
We easily blame others for our problems while refusing to see our contributions in the mess.A defraudee will always accuse the defrauder of being a fraud while refusing to acknoledge that he /she actually aided the fraudster.
We must stop living a self righteous life,learn to always analyse our action,criticise it and accept our responsibility - taht is what maturity is all about.
Judging ourself put us in a position to correct others.As the Holy Scripture says "You cannot remove the speck in the eyes of others unless you remove the wood in your own eyes"
Let our actions,lifestyle,word and character do the judging.In the words of Thomas lye"do not spend the strenght of your zeal in censuring others.The man that is most busy in censuring others is always the least employed in examinig himself"

Just an encouragement

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.


Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.


If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.


"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present"

Share the gift of today by making others around Happy.

For somebody somewhere needs your smile/encouragement to carry on.

"For a Man is Worth how many life he Touched" obie.

Fw: Facing and defeating Adversity

Hey, you know what, nothing worth achieving comes easy.For what keeps a person in the midst of adversity is having a sense of purpose,which fuels the power to persist between success and failure. There is no much between success and failure, and the little difference make a big differnce in a world of many STARTERS with few FINISHERS. A winner knows he still has a lot to learn even when considered an expert by others! For a man is not defeated by his opponent but by himself, it is a fact of life that must be accepted.Therefore, set forth with a plan in your head and God in your heart and I assure you, you will certainly overcome.ciao

God Cares...He always does

Why should you worry or fret about the prevailing(or predicted) downturn in the economy? Do you sty awake all-night because you're worried for your safety or the safety of your family members.Let God take care of the situation for you.Cst (all)your care on Him for "He will not allow your foot to be moved:He thatkeep you will not slumber....the Lord shall preserve thee from all evil:He shall preserve thy soul.(psalms 121:3-7)
The story is told of a mother and her four-year-old girl who were preparing to retire to bed at night but were afraid ot what might happen during the night.As the light were turned off, the child caught a glimpse of the moon outside the window. "Mother," she asked, "Is the moon God's light?". "yes" said the mother.She asked again "Will God put out His light and go to sleep?" The mother replied, "No my child,God never goes to sleep." Then out of the simplicity of a child's faith, she said something that revived the mother's faith and re-assured her of God's abiding proection. "Well, as long as God is awake,there is need for any of us to stay awake." And they both slept peacefully without any danger.
Don't try to do God's work; it can never be done, instead relax and watch Him take care of you!

Don't Quit

When things go wrong, as they often will
When the road you tread seems uphill
When funds are low and debts high
When you want to smile and all you do is sigh
When situation press you down,rest if must
But don't QUIT....

In times of despairs....I AM HERE

In times f despair and darkness
broken spirit filled with weakness
like a wreck survivor in an ocean
Hopeless in his world of confusion

No dream about the future
'Cos the present is not even sure
when the past becomes the link to reality
lonliness becomes dreadful than death

Broader prolems for narrow shoulder
For life is more hopeful for captured soldier
Too many voices, all saying nothing
Excerpt a lone voice whispring something
Streaming ear eager to hear

The soul soothing word,I AM HERE!.

How to achieve HAPPINESS.

Happiness is simply a state of showing contentment.To be in this state one has to have the right attitude which is to be contentend with whatever one gets,for there are always to side to everything.Life can never be a win-win situation!
Therefore, to be in a state of peaceful happiness or satisfaction, one need to approach life like a first time expectant father.Who know he either gets boy or girl and matter-of-factly,never worries about the baby's sex!
Bearing in mind that ouractions either brings success or failure and accepting the result as it is(considerin that you have given your best), is the pathway to HAPINESS! Lets stop being afraid of being HAPPY.
In the words of Vernon Howard "for a self-satisfied and happy individual is the only one who has the ability to distribute happinss"
Learn to be CONTENTED,and you'll become SELF-SATISFIED!

Life, Us and God...

Life can be liken to a journey.It can be sweet, rough, difficult,lovly and sometimes incredibily cruel.But like a well thought mission with plan B,the creator(G0d) in his wisdom properly equipped us.
If only we look deeply inward and tap into our talents & gifts and allow them to BLOSSOM...for God will not allow us face what is bigger than US.
Don't know what you are fcing or going through, just remember that you have been giving everything you need to overcome! Just look deep within YOU